Onward Tip: Announcing your Finalized Divorce to the World

Announcing your divorce is a deeply personal and emotional decision, and it’s important to approach it with care and compassion, for both yourself and others. When sharing the news in person, it’s often best to begin with close friends and family, keeping your message simple and focused on your feelings, the support you need, and the next chapter of your life. 

If you decide to announce it on social media, try to maintain a gentle tone, emphasizing your personal growth and the new opportunities ahead, without diving into negative details. It’s perfectly okay to keep things private and share only what feels comfortable for you. 

However you choose to share the news, be mindful of how it may affect others, especially your ex-spouse, children, or mutual friends. Remember that it’s okay to set boundaries around the information you’re ready to share. Above all, allow yourself the time and space to process the changes, knowing that how you choose to share your journey is entirely up to you, and your healing is what matters most.

As for moving onward, once the divorce is finalized, some people choose to mark their next chapter with a celebration or gathering (divorce parties have become a thing), a wish-list trip (solo travel is rapidly on the rise), or by setting and conquering a physical feat (triathlon, anyone?). That said, it’s equally effective to quietly continue to heal, grieve, and grow. At Onward, we view every challenge as an opportunity, too — and you are not alone as you announce and move forward along your divorce journey.