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Kids Corner: Helpful Reads & Resources During Divorce

Going through a divorce can feel overwhelming, but no one has to go through it alone. There are many resources available to help kids understand ...
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Kids Corner:  Finding Joy in Tough Times

Divorce can be stressful, emotional, and exhausting, but that doesn’t mean life has to be all about sadness or change. Taking care of yourself and ...
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Kids Corner: Emotional Support & Coping Strategies

Divorce is a big change, and it’s normal for kids to feel a mix of emotions—sadness, anger, confusion, relief, or even guilt. The good news ...
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Kids Corner: Co-Parenting & Family Communication: Navigating Two Households

Kids often have to split their time between two homes when parents divorce. This can be a big adjustment, especially if parents have different rules, ...
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Onward Intel: How Do I Know If and When It’s Time for a Divorce?

Deciding whether to end a marriage is one of the most daunting challenges individuals can face. Divorce is a life-altering decision that can bring about ...
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Onward Tip: A Daily Gratitude Journal Routine

No one typically marries thinking it will end in divorce, yet when it does, many of us can feel stuck and overwhelmed when navigating the ...
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Kids Corner: Post Divorce:  New Family Dynamic

Divorce brings a lot of changes, and adjusting can take time. From new living arrangements to different family traditions, it’s normal to feel a mix ...
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What Exactly is Codependence?

Codependence is a dysfunctional pattern of behavior in which one person excessively relies on another for emotional, psychological, or even physical support, often at the ...
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Onward Tips: Back to Basics: A 5-Minute Breathing Meditation

If you practice this for a week, you can add 5 minutes of mindfulness each time (for a total of 10 minutes week two) to ...
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Onward Tip: 7 Days, 7 Ways to Self Care

During times of stress—like navigating a divorce or major life change—practicing self-care can be a lifeline, helping to maintain stability and manage anxiety.
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Divorce and Grief: A Bumpy & Necessary Process

Divorce is often likened to grief—it involves losing a relationship, a shared future, and, sometimes, even a sense of self. The grieving process during and ...
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Onward Tip: Journaling During Divorce Contemplation

Here are some journaling exercises tailored for someone who is considering or going through a divorce:
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Onward Intel: 10 Wellness Tips for Clarity and Calm

When contemplating divorce, it’s a time filled with intense emotions, uncertainty, and difficult decision-making. It’s important to take steps that provide clarity, emotional support, and ...
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What is Couples Therapy

Couples therapy helps partners improve communication, resolve conflicts, and rebuild trust. It offers a safe space for open dialogue and can lead to stronger relationships ...
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Domestic Abuse & Violence Resources

Seeking support for domestic abuse can feel overwhelming, but you are not alone. Numerous organizations offer confidential help, safety planning, and legal resources to ensure ...
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Relationship Reflection and Renewal Exercise

Reflect on your past relationship to gain clarity and heal. This exercise guides you to examine both the positives and negatives of your experiences—from identifying ...
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When Should I Hire a Therapist?

Therapy can provide vital support during and after divorce, helping with emotional struggles, conflict resolution, and co-parenting. It offers stress management during legal proceedings and ...
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Mediation Requirements in Colorado

In Colorado, mediation is often required in divorce cases, especially for child custody disputes. Courts aim to resolve issues outside of court through affordable services ...
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10 Helpful Tips for Tough Conversations

Having tough conversations during times of change, such as separation and divorce, is essential for building trust and resolving conflict. To navigate these discussions, prepare ...
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How to Find a Therapist

Navigating the journey of finding the right therapist can be overwhelming, especially during tough times like divorce. Onward offers a step-by-step guide to simplify the ...
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How Do I Know if a Therapist is a Good Fit?

Choosing the right therapist is essential during challenging times like divorce. It's not only about qualifications but also about feeling supported. Our guide highlights key ...
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Contemplating Divorce: Recommended Reads

Contemplating divorce is a deeply personal and challenging process. Here is a curated a selection of insightful and empowering books to help navigate a challenging ...
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Interviewing Family Law Attorneys

When consulting with a family law attorney for your divorce it’s crucial to ask questions that will help you understand the process, protect your interests, ...
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Understanding Family Law Attorneys: Choosing the Right Fit

Family law attorneys can exhibit a range of personality traits and negotiation styles that can influence the approach they take in handling divorce cases. Understanding ...
Guides

Guide: Sharing Your Decision With Your Spouse

Many people struggle greatly at the very thought of sitting down with their spouse and telling them that a decision to divorce has already been made. ...
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Guide: Contemplating Divorce

While every relationship – and every divorce – is unique to the individuals involved, there are some prevalent reasons for divorce across couples. What follows ...
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The 8 Best Books on Finding Yourself

From forming powerful habits to understanding ourselves better these books, curated by our wellness expert, help you get to the heart of the matter.
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Getting to the HEART of the matter

Understanding your relationship and where it's going off the rails is important. These reads and listens can help you find some peace and maybe even ...
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Making the move. Like, THE move.

Sometimes getting started is the hardest part of the process. Dr. Anders Beier highlights some of his favorite books on the topic. The first step ...
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2 books, 1 difficult decision. This is required reading for divorce.

As you are considering divorce, these two books truly help you understand the complexities and also set you up for an efficient and hopefully amicable ...
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Looking inside: A contemplative view of divorce.

Deciding if you should stay or go is sometimes both the easiest and most impossible decision you can imagine. These two books take a contemplative ...

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