Preparing for Divorce: What To Do Before You Begin

Once you’ve decided to move forward with divorce, there’s a lot to think about, and a lot to get organized.

Good divorce preparation starts with understanding what you’re walking into. That means getting a handle on your finances, gathering important documents, learning about the legal process, and thinking through practical questions about your home, your children, and what life may look like afterward.

This free guide covers key areas of divorce preparation, including:

  • Financial preparation: Gathering financial documents, opening individual accounts, understanding your property and debts, and thinking about your post-divorce budget
  • Legal preparation: Learning about your state’s divorce laws, understanding custody considerations, and knowing when it may make sense to consult an attorney
  • Emotional preparation: Assessing your support system and thinking about how you’ll take care of yourself during the process
  • Practical preparation: Considering living arrangements, the impact on your children, and other decisions you may need to make
  • Staying organized: Using checklists and actionable steps to keep track of what needs to be done and reduce the chance that something important gets overlooked

This guide helps you approach divorce preparation with clarity and foresight, ensuring you’re ready for the financial, legal, and emotional aspects of this significant life transition.

A closer look at your finances

Financial preparation is an important part of getting ready for divorce. Before you can make informed decisions about your future, you need to understand what you own, what you owe, what you earn, and what you spend.

This guide includes steps for gathering your financial records, understanding property division, and preparing for your financial life after divorce.

What is a divorce financial checklist?

A divorce financial checklist is a list of the financial information and tasks you may need to gather and complete as you prepare for divorce. This can include collecting account statements and other documents, identifying assets and debts, understanding income and expenses, and thinking about your financial needs after divorce.

Getting organized early can make the process easier and help you feel more prepared for the decisions ahead.

Related resource: Divorce Financial Forecaster

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